Here are the Top 10 movies that, to me, fit that bill (and include women). Also see Top Women in Weed Movies #11-20 and the many Honorable Mentions below.
(Hint: just Google the name of the movie to find out what streaming services have it, and at what price.)
#10. The Breakfast Club (1985)
As we're all in detention right now, let's kick off this list with Molly Ringwald and Ally Sheedy getting over their hangups and bonding with their fellow detainees with the aid of marijuana (and music) in this classic teen movie. This was quite a breakthrough in the "Just Say No" 1980s, so enjoy the "Detention Dance" video (and go make one of your own).
Free with Hulu subscription. Rentable at from Amazon Prime, YouTube, Google Play, iTunes, and Vudu.
#9. Grandma (2015)
Unlike Tomlin's character in Netflix's "Grace and Frankie," where she's ridiculed by the alcoholic Jane Fonda character, in Grandma, Lily as the feminist poetess Elle is back in all her power, signified by the "Violet" tattoo she wears on her arm (the name of the character she played in 9-5). She takes down her granddaughter's asshole boyfriend and afterwards steals his stash, smoking it with old boyfriend and silver fox Sam Elliot. The film even has a bit of a poem by Tokin' Woman Anne Waldman, plus a final appearance by Elizabeth Peña (La Bamba), who died of cirrhosis of the liver at the age of 55 in 2014. (One more reason to be more like Frankie than Grace.)
Free with Hulu subscription, rentable on Amazon Prime, YouTube, Google Play.
#8. Ricki And The Flash (2015)
Meryl Streep rocks as a rock singer mother who opens up communication with her estranged family assisted by a bag of pot she finds in the freezer. Directed by Jonathan Demme and written by Diablo Cody, the film re-unites Streep with Kevin Kline (Sophie's Choice) and also co-stars Rick Springfield and her real-life daughter Mamie Gummer. Streep and Steve Martin “poke smot” in the 2009 movie It’s Complicated, giving the movie an "R" rating due to a lack of "negative consequences." Reportedly Streep also smoked medicinal pot in One True Thing, a film in which she plays a cancer patient who takes her own life with an overdose of morphine (I guess that consequence was bad enough for the censors).
Rentable from Amazon Prime, Google Play, iTunes, Vudu, and YouTube.
#7. Bull Durham (1988)
Oscar winner Susan Sarandon plays the philosophical pot smoker Annie Savoy who, after trying other religions, worships at "The Church of Baseball." She romances both ballplayers Kevin Costner and Tim Robbins, who she hooked up with after shooting. Pot is subtly depicted, as when she's left alone and puffs thoughtfully in her bed, and when she finds a roach on the floor after a date with Costner, musing, "This world is made for those who aren't cursed with self-awareness."
Free on Vudu and Tubi; rentable at YouTube, Amazon Prime, Google Play, and iTunes.
#6. Peace Love & Misunderstanding (2011)
Jane Fonda plays a better Grace in this film than she does on the "Grace & Frankie." Here she portrays the hippie mother of an uptight attorney (Catherine Keener) who brings her two teenage children to their grandmother's house after her marriage breaks up. Grace, whose home reeks of pot, deals a little on the side and introduces her grandkids (Elizabeth Olsen and Nat Wolff) to the wonders of the weed. It's done intelligently, with Grace resorting to it before losing them to an evening of them closing down (as so many teens do). With Chace Crawford, who played the stoner on "Gossip Girl," and Rosanna Arquette, howling at the moon while wearing a pot-leaf necklace.
Available for rent at iTunes and for purchase on other platforms.
#5 - Saving Grace
Academy Award-nominated actress Brenda Blethyn plays another Grace, a widow who grows weed to save her Cornwall home in this charming British comedy from comedian Craig Ferguson (who co-stars). It gets a little preachy in parts, as when Grace tries to smoke and gets ill, but it's hilarious when two old ladies from the town try making tea from her crop, and the ending is delightful. (I asked Ferguson at an pre-screening event if he'd been pressured to add "negative consequences" to the film. He said, "Oh yes, some wanted my character to die.")
Included with Hulu subscriptions; Available for purchase at iTunes, Google Play & Vudu.
#4 - Ride (2015)
Written and directed by actress Helen Hunt (Mad About You, What Women Want), Ride stars Hunt as a high-powered New York editor who follows her wayward son to California and ends up on a quest of her own, learning to surf and smoke pot (and fall in love with Luke Wilson). It's particularly gratifying to see Hunt depicting marijuana (mostly) positively, since in 1980 she played a schoolgirl who smokes pot and is unable to complete a book report in the sitcom "The Facts of Life," during the time when the US drug czar's office was offering advertising credits to shows with anti-marijuana messages.
Included with Amazon Prime, Vudu and Tubi subscriptions; Available for purchase at Amazon, iTunes, Google Play, and You Tube.
#3 - Annie Hall (1977)
Sweeping the Oscars in 1977 was this film starring Diane Keaton as a sweet but insecure pot smoker who tries to turn Woody Allen onto weed so that he can start to enjoy life (the original title of the film was Anhedonia, the inability to be happy). Having an argument about why she must smoke before they make love, she tells him if he'd only try it he wouldn't need so much psychotherapy. Keaton also smokes pot on film (in a bathtub) in 1982's Shoot the Moon. Also a nod to Allen's movie Alice in which Mia Farrow smokes opium and takes some trips of her own, Alice in Wonderland style.)
Included with Amazon Prime and Hulu subscriptions; Available for purchase at Amazon, iTunes, Google Play & Vudu.
#2 - Harold and Maude (1970)
The amazing screenwriter/actress Ruth Gordon plays Maude, an 80-year-old free-spirited woman who turns a young Harold (Bud Cort) onto marijuana, enabling him to open up to someone about the source of his strange behavior, and learn to love life. With a Cat Stevens soundtrack and Hal Ashby directing, it's probably no accident that this film is Cameron Diaz's favorite movie as the title character in There's Something About Mary (1998), since Mary and Ted (Ben Stiller) smoke a joint together after they reunite.
Included with Amazon Prime subscriptions. Available for purchase at Amazon, iTunes, Google Play & Vudu.
#1 - 9 to 5 (1980)
Jane Fonda plays a naive woman who returns to work after her husband runs off with his secretary. Soon she and co-workers Lily Tomlin and Dolly Parton have "an old fashioned ladies' pot party" and scheme to overthrow their sexist boss. In one scene Fonda announces to her ex-husband that she smokes marijuana as part of her awakening. It also contains an intelligently written scene where Tomlin and her son discuss drug use and moderation. Parton contributed the movie's theme song, and it and the film have become statements for women's empowerment.
On Hulu and Sling TV (subscription); Available for purchase at Amazon, iTunes, Google Play & Vudu.
Also see: Top Women in Weed Movies #11-20 and:
Honorable mentions (click on the title links to read more):
- Madonna turns a spa salesman onto pot in Desperately Seeking Susan (1985). Philosophical musings ensure.
- Tina Fey and Margot Robbie puff a hookah in the excellent Whiskey Tango Foxtrot (2016).
- Andie MacDowell turns Chevy Chase onto pot and more in the Netflix film The Last Laugh (2019), also featuring Richard Dreyfus and Kate Micucci from "Garfunkel and Oates."
- Catherine Zeta-Jones is the hottest MILF ever shotgunning her young date in The Rebound (2009).
- Danneel Harris turns Kai Penn (Kumar) onto pot in Harold and Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay; in A Very Harold and Kumar 3-D Christmas she convinces him not to stop smoking.
- Cameron Diaz lights up more than the screen in Bad Teacher where she opens up co-worker Phyllis Smith ("The Office") with a doobie.
- Kate Winslet and Judy Davis bake "special" cakes for a neighbor in pain in The Dressmaker (2015).
- Liv Tyler turns on an ailing Jeremy Irons in Stealing Beauty (1996), wherein Rachel Weisz also tokes.
- Eva Amurri Martino, Sarandon's daughter, drives a pot dealer around one summer to make money for college in Middle of Nowhere (2008). The scene where he justifies his career choice is one of the most cogent arguments for legalization ever.
- JoBeth Williams, Mary Kay Place and Gwen Close toke in The Big Chill (1983). JoBeth also tokes up in Poltergeist (1982), but then she pays.
- Karen Allen puffs with her college professor/lover Donald Sutherland, bringing the boys along, in Animal House (1978). She also smokes in a bathtub in Scrooged (1988).
- Linda Cardellini is the life of the party in Grandma's Boy (2006), where Shirley Jones and Doris Roberts drink some interesting tea.
- I’ll See You in My Dreams (2015) features a pot party followed by a munchie run with Blythe Danner, Rhea Perlman, Mary Kay Place and June Squibb.
- Elizabeth Moss brings a bag of pot on a retreat with her husband in The One I Love (2014), leading to some bizarre consequences.
- Charlize Theron turns Seth MacFarlane onto pot brownies in A Million Ways to Die in the West (2014), setting him up for his drug-fueled Native American vision quest that puts him on the right path.
See an almost-complete list by date of women and marijuana in Movies and on TV.